Every year, at the start of summer, we think about the vast stretch of time ahead of us. And every year, we are struck by the sudden start of school. We want more time to spend with our friends and relax in leisure, yet we later scorn it as a waste of time when inundated by the pressure of work, whether it be duties or aspirations.
Our lives often have a certain repetitiveness, with days seeming to conclude identically, never quite achieving our ambitions. And when we turn to look at others, we guilt ourselves for being unable to measure up to their triumphs. Yet in all this, we have fallen victim to a horrible trap. We compare our shortcomings to others’ victories. We are our harshest critics, and others’ greatest supporters. We forget that we are only human, and that rest and recovery are a part of progression.
Change is slow, and it is only visible with time and reflection. Try to make small, mindful changes every day.
As we come out of a period of rest away from school, we should not forget to step away from what we are doing and reset, reflecting on who we are and how far we have come. Though it may not feel like it, the only person we need to prove ourselves to is ourselves. The start of the school year brings new possibilities. The new schedule, new teachers, new classmates—let them inspire us. But do not let them control us. Change is slow, and it is only visible with time and reflection. Try to make small, mindful changes every day. We should be proud that we raised our hand in discussion. We should be proud that we talked to someone new at lunch. We should be proud that we learned a new Spanish word. We should be proud of ourselves. Small steps taken every day carry us further than overexerting and burning ourselves out ever will.
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